Our goal is to create and grow a new online community rather than just serve as repository of website advertisements and links to other online communications. We are counting on our members to help us grow this community. When certain members ask to be paid on paypal or communicate off the site it hurts all of our members, including the offending member. Essentially, it detracts from our pool of contributors. The more contributors that are on the site, the faster you will achieve your goals.
One could imagine the effect if everyone requested payment off the site. We would no longer be able to offer the mygirlfund platform as a basis for this community. In essence every girl on the site would have to find her own personal contributors on the internet through paypal or other means.
Hopefully you have a better understanding as to why we ask that all members honor this policy. It is for the benefit of the community that we have a zero tolerance policy towards off-site solicitations. If a member requests payment via paypal, wishlists or other means, their account will be terminated.